If you’re feeling tired after a long day at work and your brain just can’t seem to come up with any ideas, don’t worry. We’ve got your back with some of our favorite go-to ideas for a romantic, sexy, and steamy time.


Get fancy and have a cozy picnic in your living room. Set up a blanket, light some candles, and enjoy a delicious meal while pretending you’re outside on a warm summer night. Bonus points if you crack open a bottle of wine.

Bake something sweet together. Whether you’re whipping up something sweet from scratch or using a mix, baking is a great way to bond with your sweetheart. And the best part? You get to enjoy the fruits of your labor afterwards! Wanna get more original? Add a controlled amount of cannabis oil to your cookies and transform them into edibles to share together. Laughter guaranteed! We found a simple recipe here for cannabis chocolate chips cookie.

Get creative and make homemade gifts for each other. Think handmade cards, painting each other’s portraits, or writing love letters. These small gestures will mean the world to your partner, and you’ll both have something to keep and treasure – or laugh about – for years to come. Spice things up by making little “gift cards”, where each little card is a free-something, to be used at any time. Think free massage for 30min, kissing session, cooking his/her favourite meal…


Lap dance! Turn on our Slaphappy playlist – specially curated for a hot time and burst out your sexiest moves. And if you feel self-conscious, turn off the light and lit a few candles. Everything turns sexier under candlelight.

What about getting clean and ready for bed by taking a steamy shower or bath together? Propose to wash each other in turn. That’s your opportunity to start exploring each other’s body… not a bad idea to get in the mood for some extra fun later, if you know what I mean…

In turn again, blindfold him/her and use Coquine intimacy oil to massage each other. Depriving each other of the sense of sight will heightens every touch. Every movements become more sensual, and even if you’re bad at giving massage, we guarantee that this technique will transform you into (almost) a pro!


Well, these next ideas deserve each their own full detailed article. However, just for the sake of this blog post, we’ll make it brief. We’ll link you to other posts where the ideas are explored deeper (pun intended).

Oral sex.
Who doesn’t like a bit of exploration in the southern part of the body? Being knowledgeable about your partner’s anatomy can enhance the quality of the oral sex you provide. The more familiar you are with your partner’s body, the better you can fine-tune your techniques to bring maximum pleasure. Communication is key. Don’t be afraid to ask what feels good to your partner. Everyone is unique, so is their pleasure. What feels incredible to one may be uncomfortable for another. Make it a game even: give 3 options on how to be touched/licked and let her/him decide what they prefer best. Well, we can go on and on about how to do it, but we won’t go over it now. In the meantime, check out these articles if you want to learn more about the clit and about the penis.

Spice things up with a toy.
Let’s face it, some of us need a little extra “oomph” to hit that big “O” during sex. And for some, finding the magic button can sometimes feel like trying to solve a Rubik’s cube blindfolded. In the meantime, dudes can struggle to keep their own engines revving, leading to some pretty convincing fake orgasms from the gals (seriously, bravo on the acting skills). But fear not, because sex toys are here to save the day (and night)! They’re like the wingmen of the bedroom, helping both parties achieve maximum pleasure and satisfaction.

So, let’s get playful and experiment with some toys to find that sweet spot together. Who knows, you might just discover a whole new level of pleasure that you never knew existed. Here’s a link to some of our favorites toys that can be purchased in Thailand.

Anal sex.
Alright, folks, let’s get down and dirty with the big A-word – yeah, you know what I’m talking about. Anal play may not be everyone’s cup of tea, but hear us out. It’s that forbidden fruit, that area that’s usually off-limits to anyone but you. But let’s be real, there’s something tantalizing about venturing into uncharted territory and getting a little freaky. It’s like tapping into a whole new level of pleasure that’s been hiding in plain sight this whole time.

But, just like any new adventure, it’s important to approach it with caution and preparation. Make sure you have the right tools (ahem, aka Coquine intimacy oil) and take things slow and steady. We’ve also link this awesome guidebook for beginner. You’re welcome!

Whether you’re looking for something intimate or just want to add a little extra sizzle to your evening, these sexy date ideas are sure to help get you started. And remember, the key to a successful night is to keep it light and have fun!